Shaun is participating in the Caregiver Smile Summit
We welcome Shaun to the Caregiver Smile Summit. Shaun is an angel investor, seasoned business executive and techpreneur. He has deep insights into the new digital technologies and how they can be leveraged to benefit us in our daily lives. He is the Founder CEO of Sentech Ventures, a company that leverages voice first technologies like Amazon Alexa and Google Assistant to help seniors “Age in Place”. He is also an Investor & Chief Business Officer for Technosphere an Internet of Things company that works on innovative electronic products and solutions. Prior to this for over two decades Shaun has worked with various technology companies in business management roles. Shaun earned his undergraduate in Engg. from National Institute of Technology in India and his MBA from Scott School of Business in Indiana. He lives in Dallas with his wife and daughter.
Her topic on the caregiver smile summit is: Using Smart Speakers to Make Your Life Easier as a Caregiver
Our Friday Song of the Week – One for My Baby
Dental Care Tips for Older Adults
The elderly are more susceptible to a number of dental issues including – dry mouth, root decay, and gum disease. Dental diseases have also been linked to several other health issues, including heart disease, respiratory infections, and mental health disorders. Elderly people should, therefore, take extra care when looking after their oral hygiene. By taking care of your dental health as you age, you can maintain healthy teeth and gums into your senior years.Here are five dental tips you should follow to keep your teeth looking their best. Here are some dental care tips to follow.
Maintain a good dental routine
The most important way to keep teeth looking their best as you get older is by maintaining a good dental routine. Make sure to brush twice a day, flossing once a day, and using mouthwash to rinse. Elderly people are more prone to developing bacteria in their mouth, so it is best to switch to an antibacterial mouthwash to help get rid of any plaque or bacteria left after brushing. You should also continue to attend regular visits with your dentist so they can check the overall health of your teeth and gums. If you ask your dentist, they will be able to provide you with helpful dental care advice on how to improve your oral health as you get older.
Switch to an electric toothbrush
Many people struggle to clean their teeth effectively with a manual toothbrush as they get older. Switching to an electric toothbrush will assist you when brushing your teeth and help you maintain a good oral hygiene routine. Electric toothbrushes are especially useful for elderly people with limited movement or conditions such as arthritis. An electric brush does most of the physical work to ensure that your teeth get a proper clean every time. It is always worth investing in quality dental products to ensure that your teeth are getting a proper clean. Click here to take a look at a wide selection of quality dental products.
Clean dentures daily
If you have dentures, then it’s important to clean them daily just as you would your natural teeth. The only difference between dentures and natural teeth is dentures cannot be cleaned with regular toothpaste. You, therefore, need to use a formula specifically designed for dentures. Wearing removable dentures constantly can irritate the gums, so it’s essential to have breaks from wearing them, for example, by taking them out while you sleep. Always keep your dentures in water or denture solution when you take them out, to prevent them from drying.
Check for side effects from medication
As people get older, they tend to require more frequent medication. Some common medications taken by the elderly can cause dental side effects such as dry mouth, which can lead to a buildup of plaque and bacteria. This can result in tooth cavities and dental issues like gum disease. So when you start taking a new medication, make sure to keep a close eye on your dental health. Check for any changes, and contact your dentist straight away if you start to notice any issues.
Follow these dental care tips to assure overall health and wellbeing.
Our Friday Song of the Week – Thinking Out Loud
MY FATHER’S AN EXHIBITIONIST – WHAT TO DO WHEN A PARENT ACTS OUT
As part of our ongoing Caregiver Smile Summit, I recently spoke to Dr. Pamela Pitman Brown, a credentialed professional gerontologist and a fellow in the Academy of Gerontology, about the topic of inappropriate sexual behaviors displayed by a loved one in the throes of dementia. We called the session – My Father’s an Exhibitionist.
What Are Sexually Inappropriate Behaviors?
According to Pam, there is no one real definition of those behaviors. From a research perspective what people like Pam look for is disruptive behavior. It might be verbal. It might be physical. It might just be a little creepy.
Sometimes people might say, “Oh, somebody made an advance toward me and it was an old guy.” It’s where people get a little squeamish.
Pam related a story: “My great grandmother had cognitive impairment and we would find her occasionally down the street with no clothes on, having tea with the queen of England in someone’s kitchen. Is this normally what she would have done? Exhibitionism is something we would not consider normal behavior.”
Anywhere from 3–25% of older adults with cognitive impairment may display inappropriate sexual behaviors, sex talk, nudity, comments that are inappropriate, and more.
Think About the Context Before Acting
When you’re dealing with someone with cognitive impairment, they may not know who you are. Think about context. Think about the behavior. Would the person do this in a normal situation? Most of the time the answer is no. Cognitive impairment does affect your judgment.
Pam’s grandmother was the sweet, wonderful little old lady. And then she became cognitively impaired. She was mean as a snake. As you understand this, the same personality changes can affect an older person’s sexual attitude and their behavior, and we also know it affects their judgment.
Consider what medications the person is on because there are some medications that actually inhibit sexual behavior while other combinations may really impair the person’s cognitive ability. Also, consider traumatic brain injury, a big issue we see with aging veterans.
What if the individual has already been diagnosed with bipolar disorder or another mental illness? This also will affect their brain. Alcoholism really changes how your brain operates, particularly if you’ve been a chronic alcoholic.
Often the behavior is a symptom of an underlying issue. It’s not that the individual is choosing to act this way, and that is something that you absolutely have to understand.
Think about this. People are sensitive to their clothing – how it fits, how it feels, the material it’s made of. Older adults are sensitive as well. Is it scratchy? Is it itchy? What do we do when we come home from work? Typically, change our clothes.
Older adults may not have the cognitive ability to realize they have to be in the privacy of their home to take their uncomfortable clothes off. They just want the clothes off, period.
These are some cues that caregivers need to consider before panicking. Maybe it is something as simple as the clothing being uncomfortable. So, address the small things first.
Redirection is a great way to diffuse situations. Tell your loved one something like, “I bet that shirt is itchy. Let’s find you a better shirt.” Another tactic is to look at how the clothing operates. Find things that are difficult to take off.
Find Legal Counsel
Consult with an elder attorney. He/she needs to be aware of what is happening. A lot of times inappropriate sexual behaviors will lead to removing a parent from a home.
For the person with dementia, these behaviors are not sexual in nature. You are not looking at an individual who is posing harm to society. They’re not a pedophile, and they would never do this if they did not have cognitive impairment.
It is very important to document everything. Is this behavior becoming more aggressive? Discuss the situation with Mom or Dad’s physician.
More Community Education Needed
I asked Pam if she thought law enforcement and communities are being sensitized and educated around the issues. She said that the laws have not caught up with the sheer number of older adults that we have.
You can take away the car keys from your loved one, for example, but will that actually stop an older adult from driving? Maybe not. They can still go to a mall, can go to a store, can go anywhere. And they can act out.
Laws for indecent exposure are on the books. Every state has different ages that they prosecute. So, a loved one could be arrested. Typically, the charges are dismissed, especially if you have been documenting the situation.
Sex and seniors is a topic that gets a lot of attention. It happens in senior communities, which boast some of the highest rates of sexually transmitted diseases. Legitimate and consensual is one thing. But what about inappropriate behaviors like being an exhibitionist?
The industry is just starting to recognize and train professional caregivers in this area. If something is going on and you witness it, you need to also make sure that the staff is aware.
Most of the staff has seen a lot more than you have, so this is not going to be shocking to them. What is going to upset them is you seeing it and not reporting it.
Pam described a new term to me called “skin hunger.” It’s the reason newborns are immediately given to their mother. People want to touch people. We want them to touch us. Touch is extremely important.
I never quite understood the need by people living with dementia to have stuffed animals or baby dolls. Now I get it. You can hold them, snuggle them. You have something providing touch.
If a person has a stuffed animal, people are going to want to talk to them. They need that attention. A baby doll gives a person something to care for, and it brings back a piece of their past.
Pam says that sometimes, it’s just simply about making sure that your loved one feels safe and secure.
You can hear Pam talk about the subject of being an exhibitionist during our 2019 Caregiver Smile Summit.