Maximizing the Capabilities of a Loved One with Dementia – Charlotte Today

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Maximizing the Capabilities of a Loved One with Dementia – Charlotte Today

We often think of people with dementia, especially those with Alzheimer’s, as mostly dependent on others and incapable. Is that really the case? With forethought, caregivers can identify tasks that their loved one can do. Maximizing their capability benefits everyone. And it keeps disease progression at bay. I cover this on Charlotte Today using principles from Carol Amos, author of “H.O.P.E. for the Alzheimer’s Journey. She says the caregiver’s role is to fulfill the needs of their loved one that the loved one cannot do for themselves. She worked proactively to slow the decline of their mother’s dementia to maximize her ability to care for herself. Scheduling regular doctor appointments. Receiving vaccinations and age appropriate health screenings. The family carefully weighed the risk and benefits of any medical procedure. It is important to receive a proper diagnosis as they will rule out other causes of the symptoms such as vitamin deficiencies, hormone imbalance, medication overload, depression, or even sleep apnea.

 

Maximizing the Capabilities of a Loved One with Dementia – Charlotte Today

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Maximizing the Capabilities of a Loved One with Dementia – Charlotte Today

We often think of people with dementia, especially those with Alzheimer’s, as mostly dependent on others and incapable. Is that really the case? With forethought, caregivers can identify tasks that their loved one can do. Maximizing their capability benefits everyone. And it keeps disease progression at bay. I cover this on Charlotte Today using principles from Carol Amos, author of “H.O.P.E. for the Alzheimer’s Journey. She says the caregiver’s role is to fulfill the needs of their loved one that the loved one cannot do for themselves. She worked proactively to slow the decline of their mother’s dementia to maximize her ability to care for herself. Scheduling regular doctor appointments. Receiving vaccinations and age appropriate health screenings. The family carefully weighed the risk and benefits of any medical procedure. It is important to receive a proper diagnosis as they will rule out other causes of the symptoms such as vitamin deficiencies, hormone imbalance, medication overload, depression, or even sleep apnea.

 

Caregiver Envy – My Segment on Charlotte Today

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Caregiver Envy – My Segment on Charlotte Today

People who care for family members and other people may be seen as selfless and unselfish, but you may not know that they may be struggling with feelings of envy. Caregiver envy os a real thing.. Oftentimes people are thrust into a that position without even volunteering for the job. Resentment may ensue because some of the liberties and freedoms they once enjoyed are now replaced by caring for someone else.  For example, seeing people holding hands and walking in the park may spark flames of jealousy. Having to meet the demands of parents who may be sicker or have disabilities more severe than their friends may arouse feelings of envy. Or maybe the caregiver had to give up a job to watch and care for love ones may cause deep seeds of envy.  The underline causes of envy are natural. These thoughts can pop up at any time. So what should you do if you have these feelings?

Accept that you may feel this way. Second, think about what your losing in a relationship where dementia is taking the person memories away. Third, focus on your grief and sorrow of loss relationships. Finally, letting go of guilty feelings and coming to terms with your situation will allow you to invite friends back into your life. There is a bright side to care giving. Be proud of the fact that you have done something worthwhile and amazing; taking care of someone who could not do for themselves. Shout out to Barry Jacobs whose AARP article was the inspiration.

Caregiver Envy – My Segment on Charlotte Today

caregiver envy

Caregiver Envy – My Segment on Charlotte Today

People who care for family members and other people may be seen as selfless and unselfish, but you may not know that they may be struggling with feelings of envy. Caregiver envy os a real thing.. Oftentimes people are thrust into a that position without even volunteering for the job. Resentment may ensue because some of the liberties and freedoms they once enjoyed are now replaced by caring for someone else.  For example, seeing people holding hands and walking in the park may spark flames of jealousy. Having to meet the demands of parents who may be sicker or have disabilities more severe than their friends may arouse feelings of envy. Or maybe the caregiver had to give up a job to watch and care for love ones may cause deep seeds of envy.  The underline causes of envy are natural. These thoughts can pop up at any time. So what should you do if you have these feelings?

Accept that you may feel this way. Second, think about what your losing in a relationship where dementia is taking the person memories away. Third, focus on your grief and sorrow of loss relationships. Finally, letting go of guilty feelings and coming to terms with your situation will allow you to invite friends back into your life. There is a bright side to care giving. Be proud of the fact that you have done something worthwhile and amazing; taking care of someone who could not do for themselves. Shout out to Barry Jacobs whose AARP article was the inspiration.

Three Interesting Ways To Grow Old Gracefully

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Nobody likes the idea of growing older, yet it’s unavoidable and something we are, when you think about it, fortunate to experience. This means that rather than seeing aging as a negative, we should view it as a good thing – something to enjoy and experience in the best ways possible. Read on for some great ideas for growing old gracefully while having a lot of fun, which should make you feel a lot better about the whole idea and remind you to enjoy yourself as much as possible.

Consult The Doctor

As we grow old gracefully, our bodies begin to hurt a bit more, and our mobility changes; our joints become less flexible. Rather than ignoring these symptoms because thinking about aging isn’t pleasant, it’s essential to have them checked out by a doctor to ensure they aren’t anything more severe.

As well as this, your doctor may be able to prescribe medicine to help you feel more like yourself again. Whatever the situation, ignoring the aches and pains and any illness symptoms and choosing to live with the problems when you don’t have to won’t help you enjoy your later years much.

Get A Pet

Pets provide unconditional love and a lot of company, which may be just what you need to stop feeling old and start enjoying your old age. This is particularly helpful if you have trouble making new friends since you will always have a pet to return home to. A pet will help you grow old gracefully since you will be responsible for another life, one that is unconcerned with how you look or how old you are. You can be yourself without worrying about your age, which will make you happier and perhaps healthier.

Taking care of a pet when you are older is actually easier than doing so when you’re younger. This is because you’re more likely to be at home during the day because you’ve retired, for example, and because you have fewer other responsibilities. You can take your dog for a walk, play with your cat or guinea pig, keep your chickens clean and healthy, and easily buy pet food online at exceptionalpets.com, making things as easy and fun as possible for you. 

Eat And Drink Well

A good diet is essential for having a long and healthy life, and this becomes increasingly more vital as we age. Because our systems metabolize food differently as we age, some meals you may have enjoyed in the past will no longer be healthy for you or could even make you feel sick.

Although this is sad, there are numerous foods that you may not have eaten before that will keep you as healthy as possible while still tasting great. With this in mind, it’s a good idea to experiment with as many new food and beverage options as possible. This is both enjoyable and helpful for your health in your senior years.

Aging well will make the whole process as palatable as possible allowing you to grow old gracefully.

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