Ensure You’re Providing the Right Care to Your Elderly Parents

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How You Can Ensure You’re Providing the Right Care to Your Elderly Parents

Looking after an elderly parent is strenuous and often time-consuming, especially for those that already have jobs and families to look after themselves. However, this sort of thing can’t be helped and, most of us will, at some point, find ourselves looking after our parents because they can’t undertake basic tasks themselves due to disabilities. If you’re one of those people, or think you might be in the not too distant future, have a look at some of the below tips that will help you provide the best care to them possible.

Obtain a Nurse Practitioners Degree

There are many online nurse practitioner programs Ohio based that you can take advantage of to learn the ropes of nursing. This may not be a viable option for you, but it could be the best way forward if you want to provide the best care. It could, in fact, work out a lot cheaper than hiring another caregiver to take on the responsibilities. If you opt for this route, you may even find that you enjoy being a caregiver and, having such a degree by your side could well lead to advanced nursing careers.

Keep Them Active

Just because they might now have disabilities both mentally and physically, doesn’t mean they have to be inside all day. Simply taking them to a local park or shopping is a good way to keep them active and smiling. You spending time with them is all they really want, but if you can get them out the house for a few hours each week, it could help them stay in the best condition, both mentally and physically. If you don’t have the time to take them out multiple times a week, research some of the outings that local communities usually provide for the elderly.

Create a Plan

Juggling your life around your elder parents is a big ask. It’s something that none of us are really prepared for but, after the care our parents have provided to us over the years, it’s something we want to do. Providing the best care to your parents is likely your number one priority, so it’s important you create a plan so you know you’re always going to be there, or someone else is when you’re not, should your parents require care 24/7. Creating a plan will help you manage the situation better, and it could mean that your parents get at least a bit of time to themselves so they still stay independent, even if it’s not as much as they used to be. A plan can have as much detail in it as you like, but it’s better to keep things simple so it’s not complicated for you or any other caregivers involved.

Don’t Do it by Yourself

One of the problems many caregivers bump into when looking after their elderly parents is that they take on too much themselves. It’s not always possible or viable to get help, but there’s always someone out there willing to help out, even if it’s just for an hour or two each week. It’s crucial you have a little break in-between care so you can relax, unwind, and clear your mind so you know you’re always providing them with the best care.

Discuss Their Financial Situation

As stated above, caring for your elderly parents shouldn’t be done alone. It’s imperative you have someone you can trust to do the duties you always undertake when you’re not there. Most people are lucky to have other siblings that chip in and care for their parents, but not everyone is that fortunate. This is where finances come into play and, although it’s something we don’t like to discuss given their current situation, it’s still important you talk about it. Sit down and discuss their finances with a financial advisor and your other family members to see what options you have when it comes to the right care. There could be a private home around the corner that they can afford, or there could be local caregivers that can provide services for when you have to work. The local government provides benefits for those who can’t afford/provide the right care.

It’s not easy providing care to elderly parents as it takes plenty of time and effort to ensure they are well looked after. However, if you’re willing to hand out some of the responsibilities to another relative, and you obtain the right qualifications and implement a plan, you’ll find caring for your elderly family members will be a much easier task.

The Effect of Family Caregiving on Wealth-Caregiver Smile Summit 202

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The Effect of Family Caregiving on Wealth-Caregiver Smile Summit

Kerry Hannon is our guest on the Caregiver Smile Summit.

Accumulated wealth can dissipate seemingly in a blink of an eye, when women over 50 shoulder the cost of caregiving. A Merrill Lynch/Age Wave report notes that women are 66% of all family caregivers and nearly twice as likely as men to provide care from their 40s through their 60s. On average, caregivers spend $7,000 on caregiving per year; many contribute far more. Sometimes, women find the indirect financial costs of caregiving  — lost hourly wages, reduced Social Security benefits and the missed opportunity for 401(k) contributions — especially high. A woman who leaves the workforce for caregiving loses an average of $324,000 in wages and benefits compared to $284,000 for a man who takes time off for caregiving. Women are also three times more likely than men to retire earlier than expected so they can become a family caregiver. In this session, we’ll discuss the direct and indirect costs of caregiving and ways employers can help and caregivers can find solutions to overcome financial challenges.

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Understanding and Coping with Non-Death /’Living-Losses’ as a Caregiver – Caregiver Smile Summit

Lisa Dinhofer is our guest on the Caregiver Smile Summit. Lisa is a certified Thanatologist and communication expert with 18+ years teaching.

The experience of grief occurs following not only loss from death but from ‘non-finite’ or ‘living losses’ as well. Often misunderstood and unsupported, non-death losses have unique coping difficulties. This presentation explores the challenges associated with ‘non-finite/living losses’ for adults and their caregivers and discusses other forms of loss relevant to the caregiver environment.

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To Move or Not to Move – Caregiver Smile Summit

In this session of the Caregiver Smile Summit we will discuss the right time to move a loved one.There comes a time in everyone’s life when the place they live no longer serves them. Human nature compels us to stick with what’s familiar, but that may not be the wisest choice. So what are the options? Tracey Lawrence, founder of Grand Family Planning LLC and author of the ground-breaking book, “Dementia Sucks: A Caregiver’s Journey – With Lessons Learned” will take us through the kinds of life changes that necessitate environmental changes. She’ll review the smartest ways to address change for the best possible outcome. From renovations, to assistive technologies, to hiring help, downsizing, exploring types of facilities, she’ll also talk about how to prepare for and finance your preferred transition.

Tracey is participating in the Caregiver Smile Summit. She is an educator, innovator, disruptor and entrepreneur. Her journey as a serial caregiver led her to create Grand Family Planning, LLC: http://grandfamilyplanning.comTracey shows clients the power of being proactive in light of the certainty that illness and death will be a part of every person’s life. She saves lives and legacies in a climate that lengthens human lives without regard to quality of life. Her team-based approach simplifies a daunting and complex process. Tracey’s book, “Dementia Sucks,”was published by Post Hill Press in May of 2018. It is available from Amazon and fine bookstores everywhere. She speaks professionally about the need to support family caregivers and the importance of advocacy for those who have difficulty speaking for themselves. Her topic is: To Move or Not to Move.

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